A Guide to Better Sex – 4 Killer Tips

You are probably scouring the Internet already for a guide to better sex. However, the fact is that doing just a few out-of-the-ordinary things, you could take your performance several notches higher. Here are some tips for improving your sexual performance.

Take Things Out of the Bedroom

Don’t be fixated on the bedroom for your sexual episodes. You should try out different things. How about having sex in the kitchen or in the bathroom? Maybe you could move to the balcony and have sex there at night when the world is sleeping. Maybe you could do that in your backyard as well. Sounds risky, does it? But then that’s the fun of such spontaneous sex in out of the way places. Try it-sure it is making you hot just thinking about it.

Bring Outside Things into Your Performance

Have you tried out sex toys yet? If you haven’t, you are really missing out on something. These toys can really add more excitement to the game. Get a dildo or a vibrator and add immense pleasure to your act. You should take a look at the collections that are available online-some of them are bound to take your breath away.

Get into Some Role-Playing

Why do thing the same way all the time? Role-playing can add a great deal of excitement to your sexual act. You pretend to be someone different and everything becomes so very different and exciting. You could try something daring like BDSM or some other kind of fetish sex and add to your adventure together.

Unleash Your Fantasies

There is no one who doesn’t have a sex-related fantasy. However, some people get their fantasies realized while most others just spend their days. You should actually gather the courage to speak with your partner about your sexual fantasy. And listen to their fantasy as well. If you help your partner in their fantasy, you will get the reciprocation and things could get really interesting for you.

Get Pregnant The Old-Fashioned Way – Enjoy Your Sex Life And Stop Putting Pressure On Yourself

Many women struggle with the heartbreaking problem of not being able to get pregnant. But if you have had problems in the past, don’t give up! Success might be just around the corner!

One of the main problems that occurs is that sex turns into a “means to an end” – you want to get pregnant, so you have to have sex on a schedule to make it happen. Sex can become a job. It loses its spontaneity, and even if you don’t feel like it at that moment, you have to do it, because what if you don’t get pregnant?

Be careful that you don’t do real damage to your relationship with your husband or boyfriend by insisting that he perform like a machine, with no thought as to whether he’s actually enjoying it or not! What’s more, don’t ignore the pleasure you should naturally feel as part of sex. If sex just turns into a way that you can get what you want – a baby – there may be some issues you should deal with.

This may sound like a surprising topic to some people early in their relationships, but those of you who have been in a relationship for years know that sometimes you have to work to keep the spice in your sex life.

Now if you add in the fact that you and your partner are both under pressure to make sure you get pregnant, the act of sex can lose some of its joy. For some couples, it can even become a chore.

Studies have shown that female orgasm actually increases the chances of getting pregnant. So if your entire purpose in having sex is for the man to ejaculate, you might want to rethink your approach.

Some suggestions for making sex fun again: be sure to include time for foreplay. Even if you want to skip it and get “right to the main event,” it’s important to be turned on so that you enjoy sex (and want to do it more often). Also make time for afterplay – the cuddling and touching after intercourse ends. This will make sure that sex doesn’t have to feel like wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am.

By the way, carving out time for both is important. For instance, if you want to have sex in the mornings, be sure to go to bed earlier and get up an hour earlier.

If you make time for sex, it will be more enjoyable. And if you enjoy it more, you’ll both want to do it more. And the more you do it, the more likely you are to get pregnant.

Keep the Sex Away and He’ll Keep Coming Your Way

When a man really has the hots for you, he’ll be motivated to please you. Men live to please women, that is a fact.

Women often forget this and turn the tables around trying to “get” men, however, it is because they do not understand how men work.

If you can understand a man’s ego, how fragile it is and how much he desires to please a woman, then you’ll know how to be successful with men.

The key is this: be fun, unique, authentic, independent and unpredictable then show a man a lot of appreciation and stroke his ego in all of the right places.

He’ll be eating out of your hands.

This is not about spoiling men or being a doormat. This is about understanding what works for men. Men want freedom aka a woman’s baggage safely stowed away. Men want to have fun aka a happy chick who can get up and go. Men want unpredictable aka, they hate being bored. Most of all, men want a woman who wants to be herself not another version of Barbie or God forbid Ken.

When you date around without sleeping around while being an amazing woman, it puts you in the category of “genius” You are seen as intelligent because you are selective. You are viewed to have pride in yourself which ups your attraction. Men value women who aren’t easy and they secretly know that they can more than wait if they are really into you.

Don’t fall for the ridiculous nonsense about a man NEEDING sex to survive. If a man puts pressure on you for that, let him go and dip his stick somewhere else but not with you.